— The House Rules —

Code of
Discretion.

"SOG is not a platform. It is a private society. These rules are not terms and conditions — they are the foundation on which the whole thing works."

— Sophia, Founder · ATH-0001
I
A no is a no — always.

No means no. At any time, for any reason, without explanation. This applies inside events, in private correspondence, and in any context facilitated by this platform. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn. Members who do not respect this will be permanently removed.

II
What happens inside, stays inside.

Nothing that occurs at a SOG gathering or in private correspondence is to be shared outside — not to friends, not on social media, not even anonymously. Photographs taken at gatherings are managed exclusively by SOG and sent only to attending members with faces obscured.

III
Real identity is sacred.

You know your fellow members only by their alias. Researching, revealing, or attempting to discover the real identity of any member — by any means — is grounds for immediate and permanent removal. The same applies to sharing member identities with non-members.

IV
SOG exists only inside SOG.

Contact initiated through SOG must remain on the SOG platform until both parties have explicitly agreed otherwise. Pressuring members to move to external platforms (WhatsApp, Instagram, email) is not permitted. The platform's protections only work when used.

V
Quality of correspondence over speed.

SOG is not a swipe-based platform. We expect members to read dossiers, write thoughtfully, and accept that most introductions lead to conversation, not meetings. Spam, transactional notes, and copy-pasted introductions are flagged and removed.

VI
Honesty in self-presentation.

Your dossier must accurately represent you. Misrepresentation of age, relationship status, disposition, or photograph authenticity is grounds for removal. Operators verify profiles by hand — inaccuracies are noticed.

Enforcement

SOG has two operators who review compliance flags. Flags are raised by members, by automated screenshot detection, or by operator observation. All flags are reviewed within 24 hours.

First violations may result in a warning. Violations of rules I, III, or IV result in immediate permanent removal with no appeal.

Removed members forfeit any remaining subscription period without refund.

Amendments

This Code may be updated periodically. Members will be notified by the Society Letter at least 14 days before any change takes effect. Continued use of the platform constitutes acceptance.

Questions or concerns about the Code may be directed to conduct@sog.gr.

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